Good day Angie Lovers,
I would like to share my perspective on how you can express love to your partner. However, I want to acknowledge and be understanding of those who may be in an unhealthy or unsafe relationship.
Please understand that my intention is not to encourage selflessness towards someone who is causing you harm, nor do I advocate for constantly going out of your way for those who do not reciprocate. That is not the message I want to pass on Angie square page.
With regards to Husband, Boyfriend in the house, let's focus on how you can prioritize and show love to your husband and boyfriend. continue reading below..
Whether it be today, tomorrow or in the future. If you still feel resentful because your partner did nothing for you on your birthday when you celebrated it and you plan on returning the favor by not celebrating him that is entirely your choice. I would probably feel the same way. However, there are some of you who have reached out to me asking how you can best support the man in your life. This message is specifically for those who are in safe and mutually beneficial relationships.
Now, here are some quick tips on how you can make your partner feel loved. It is important to note that every individual is different, so these are generalizations. Additionally, many of these tips are not gender-specific and can be appreciated by both men and women. Use these suggestions in conjunction with actually asking your partner which ones resonate with them the most.
Feel free to share your own ideas in the comments as well.
1. Physical affection without any surprises: Personally, I love it when I come home and my partner gives me a warm, enthusiastic hug. It's a wonderful way to reconnect with each other.
I also appreciate it when she touches me for no reason at all. It serves as a gentle reminder that she is thinking about me and desires me. This can include flirting, kissing, or even initiating intimate moments.
However, it's important to note that a significant portion of physical affection is non-cexual in nature, and all of it fills my heart with love.
2. Look for opportunities to defer to your partner.
his judgment is something that men appreciate. I'm not claiming to be competent, but I love it when my woman treats me as if I am. For instance, when she asks for my help in fixing something, it makes me feel valued. While it is true that men are often advised to just listen and not try to fix problems, sometimes we also appreciate being given the opportunity to offer a solution. It's like throwing us a softball once in a while and asking for our advice in a situation. This makes us feel like our opinions matter to you.
Let's take driving as an example. Men are often criticized for getting lost and not asking for directions. But imagine if, for once, when you think he's lost and he admits it, you simply say, "I trust you." No nagging, no reminders of his shortcomings, just a simple show of trust. It may delay our arrival by a few minutes, but it gives you the chance to treat us with respect, to defer to our judgment, and to build us up instead of tearing us down. You can say, "You've always gotten me home before, so I believe in you, babe."
If the idea of doing this bothers you, it might be worth examining the health of your relationship. Feeling chronically neglected is not healthy, and it's understandable if you view things through a lens of pain.
However, as long as you are in a safe situation, what harm is there in using this as an opportunity to stay on the same team? When was the last time you told him, "You've got this"? I bet he appreciated it.
Look for ways to affirm his strength and make him feel safe. If he has muscles, compliment him on how good they look. He's probably worked hard for them. And even if he doesn't have muscles like me, when girlfriend asks me to open a jar or fix something with my "manly strength," it may be cliché and silly, but it still feels good to be able to do it for her.
It amazes me how strong you are. It may seem silly, but it truly makes me feel more manly when you give me that look.
To connect with him, take an interest in the things that interest him. Ask him about his car, inquire about why he loves playing that specific video game, or have him explain it to you.
You can also engage him in conversations about the stock market if he enjoys it, although I understand it may not be my girlfriend's cup of tea. It's funny because she only asks me about it when she can't fall asleep.
That's a true story. The only time we discuss the stock market is when she wants to use me as her melatonin. The point is, find something that he's excited about and share in that excitement.
Go on a dinner date or Gym with him and make it a goal to learn more about why he loves it. Don't overwhelm him with questions, just gauge his interest and keep the conversation flowing.
If he seems enthusiastic, keep asking questions. If he's not much of a talker, then don't push him to answer more questions.
As you know, he's not much of a talker. Another way to show your appreciation is to brag about him in front of others. If he fixed up the car, built something, got a promotion, or is working hard on a project, let people know that you're proud of him.
Acknowledge his hard work and commend him for doing a great job. Even if he doesn't hear you, most men love to be appreciated for their accomplishments. In fact, we all love to be recognized for what we're doing right, rather than constantly criticized for what we're doing wrong.
I'm not suggesting you shower him with insincere praise, but let's all open our eyes to the little things our partners do for us. Those are my tips. Thank you for listening. Happy New Week to all the men who made it to the end. Please comment below and let me know what else I should have added. Thank you so much.
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