Landlord WAHALA Does going to work daily make one a responsible person? And why are single mum looked down on!
I commend you for a job well done. You've been nothing but amazingly beautiful in and out helping people with their issues. Mine is not related to relationship issues, but my landlord instead.
My landlord is bent on me going out to work everyday and come back at night. it is really funny to me to be sincere. It all started when I came for inspection, they asked what I do and I told them I'm a holistic health practitioner in the making, but also have a clothing business in Lagos. Mind you, I just relocated to Ibadan, all this happened in Ibadan.
In fact I have added some skills like VA, Amazon KDP and Canva, which I'm crushing all successfully to the glory of God. Now all the things I mentioned are done at home so therefore I don't go out. My clothing business fetches me money cos I have staff helping with that in Lagos.
Now to the main palava, their concern is not just about me having a source of income but to actively go out daily to prove I have a source of income. This is what got me mad. The mistake was from the lawyer, it seems they told him specifically what they wanted but he failed to explain that part to me I guess because of his share from the rent.
It was later I had they rejected many people that
came for inspection probably because they haven't seen what they wanted yet. But in my case, I was accepted with a corner eye look cos I'm a single mum lol me I kuku talk that day, I asked the man so being a single mum equals to what??? He said ahhh single mum Wahala bringing different men to the house, some with bleached body and making lots of trouble. But because I was looking responsible they will accept me. This man is in the abroad ooo but the wife lives in the house. God knows I was tired looking for other apartments at that time, this was why I settled here, I already foreseen fault from the beginning but ignored. The lawyer came back to tell me they're on his neck because report got to the husband that
I'm always home and no traces of me going to work, only my son that goes to school. Then I asked what exactly is the issue sef, I always mind my business, no stress given whatsoever, I tidy up my space. No single guy has come visiting since that was what they were scared of not knowing I have been celibate for years now lol even my friends said ok you've done more than enough, I should start adding man in my plan and pray about it. Well I have started praying about it, and despite all the bad things going on in marriages, my own will be among the best of the best amen this I believe. Only few female friends has come visiting. I respect her and her mother. I'm referring to the landlord's wife and mother cos they stay in the house. The house is just me and the landlord, only 2 in the compound.
They clearly saw I was perfect, but just want to bring up issues where there is none. I say so this is how Ibadan wants to welcome me to their state Abi ここ
The lawyer later said this is their first house built, i was like ohh no wonder. My taught from the onset was only to know my source of income, I never knew they want me to go out to that source of income daily. In this tech time where many work remotely These people are learned ooo not like they're illiterate. The wife goes to her shop daily and come back at night lol so they want same for anyone staying in the house.
Well I respect their decision. Just that I was not aware of it in details until later. Did I mention I have a garden where I plant some herbs and vegetables. I mentioned this to her the day I came for inspection, she accepted. Now that it is in their house, she will be using 1 corner eye to look at my plants. Plants that even added beauty to the compound. Since I came in, I have not seen any person cleaning the compound even though I paid for service charge that includes cleaning the compound.
The water is not as clean and no one has come wash the tank. It is my 6th month staying here. I'm just waiting for my house rent to expire next year march, then quietly move so they can have their idea person to live with. I might not even stay up to a year, not like I love wasting money or being stressed, I just want me a peaceful life.
My question is does going to work daily make one a responsible person? And why are single mum looked down on!!! Not all of us are irresponsible nahhh, categorizing single Mums in a group is not fair on us I'm 35yrs old to a 14yrs old teen boy. I look younger than my age especially because I took a healthy route and slimmed down. This made my interest in the holistic health care. It has been the best I ever did to myself. Many wonder how old was I when I had my son lol... because they have no idea of my age. I'm sure if it was when I was still very
my age. I'm sure if it was when I was still very big in stature, it is from the gate they will say no we don't want you here cos of how mature looking I was then before I slimmed down now looking like a teenager.
Not all but some landlords, please you can do better.
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