I am 22 years old female in a LDR WITH a 23 year male in Nigeria. I would just like to know if it normal for my boyfriend to be asking about my previous s£xual experiences with my ex.
Like he derives so much happiness and pay full attention whenever he ask me about it. It's not the first, second or third time he has asked about this and at first I thought maybe it's normal but recently I noticed the consistency pattern and it makes me feel so uncomfortable to talk about it to him.
I mean my ex is someone in the past and the only second boyfriend I have had aside
him(we used to date LDR for 3 years before he
broke up with me ) and recently got back together.
My boyfriend would often ask me out
of the blue how many times I had s£x with my ex boyfriend and how many times I gave him h£ad.
I always complain to him to please not talk about it but instead he would try and make it seem like I'm avoiding questions and start throwing tantrum. He would mention that it's An Harmless question that I'm being over reacting,and just want to know about my past experiences since "We are going to end up
marrying". Like I'm seriously fed up, he is the
type of person that will not leave you alone until you definitely let him hear what he wants to hear.
I don't know how long I can rub his ego for and every time I mentioned something about my ex personally. He would get cranky and act weird.
The amount of times I have asked him to stop referring to my Ex is ridiculous, we would often fight about this issue. It's not a sin to have dated someone before you dating an initial bf, I feel bullied every time and I am not the type to be this patient as a matter of fact, I'm a slowly docking out of this relationship.
Btw my body c0unt is <=2. And his body c0unt is like 15 and always trying to justify his behavior claiming it's ok for man to but not for women which sounds stupid but I never held that against him.
I love him but this his insecurities is something I can deal with. He once asked me who was the finest man between him and my ex, he would visit my social media to look at my old post that has something to do with my past relationship and whenever I try to retaliate, he would start spinning blocks like I was the one forcing him to hear.
I'm not about to spend my time rubbing his ego, there's plenty fish to fry if not for the love I have for him. In a nut shell, what and how can I get him to stop this.