In 2013, a study (among several studies) indicated that over 70% of participants reported not being in a relationship with their true love, having instead settled for someone else. Some individuals expressed that they discovered their genuine love later in life, even after marriage.
This sentiment is a prevalent theme that many can identify with. We often marry our spouses when we desire to be married, yet we continue to encounter new people throughout our lives.
It is unfortunate, but one cannot compel another to want, love, or remain loyal to them. Marriage vows have historically failed to prevent infidelity, whether it manifests as a brief encounter or a prolonged affair.
Throughout our lives, we forge connections, and there is no reason to assume that the first person we marry will be our most significant partner. For some, this may be their only experience, while for others, it serves merely as a transitional phase before new opportunities arise.
Therefore, cherish the time spent together. Acknowledge that it may come to an end, and engage in difficult discussions regarding this potential outcome. Ultimately, no matter how much you attempt to enhance your intimate life, you remain fundamentally yourself. You may undertake all the actions you believe are necessary for a healthy relationship, yet it could still conclude. This reality is simply part of the human experience. Cease the effort to control another person and embrace acceptance. Then, relish what you have while you can.
