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What causes my husband to express greater love for me following my infidelity?

 


He does not. This phenomenon is referred to as hysterical bonding. It is a well-documented occurrence among couples following infidelity, lasting for a period of up to a couple of years, during which there appears to be an increase in sexual activity and emotional connection. 

However, as the hormones begin to diminish and he starts to process his thoughts, you may experience a greater sense of distance than prior to the affair. 

This represents a prolonged and formal conclusion to your relationship. It is neither healthy nor exceptional and is rooted in a sense of loss. Consequently, many marriages tend to dissolve within 2 to 5 years after the discovery of an affair. It is often more beneficial for those involved to terminate the relationship sooner to avoid squandering time. 

For those who choose to remain together, I have yet to encounter a couple that does not have an enduring barrier between them. Their marriage may outwardly resemble any other.

Edit: I have received a significant amount of traffic on this response, and many of you seem to question the truthfulness of my statements; therefore, I have included a mainstream link here. Whether you believe that a marriage should be salvaged after infidelity is a personal decision. I personally do not believe it can ever be healthy, but you are certainly welcome to attempt to disprove the statistics.

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