I am having issues with my in-laws. This started after we got married. We live in 3bedroom flat, we did not have any issues until my sister in-law of 23years old came to stay with us November last year for her NYSC.
she tells my mother in-law whatever goes on in my house. She does not help out with anything at all not even sweep. I do everything alone. She even gives my nanny her clothes for washing. I started getting worried when she goes into my matrimonial room to take toothpaste.
Ma common toothpaste. I saw it as something abnormal and told my husband but he keep mute.. Which gave her sister more guts to keep coming into my matrimonial room anytime she likes..
So I had to call her to say if she needs anything she should let me know rather than entering my matrimonial room. So that was a huge issue with my in-laws, they said who gave me the gut to say that. That she is in her brother's house so she can enter any room of her choice.
Because of that my husband refused to eat my food for months and did not talk to and also asked me to move out of our matrimonial room to the children's room.
At that point I was depressed and fed up with living in the house. So I had to involve my family but still it was getting all messed up.
Finally I left the house and rented an apartment, took my daughter along. Remember I told mother in-law what was going on but she went ahead to tell my sister in-law to be cooking for my husband even before I left.
This is a girl that can not cook or do anything, her mum was giving directions of what to buy and how to cook it.
To cut the long story short. My husband later came and apologise and promised that his sister will leave after her NYSC. Ma, she has finished the program since August last year.
But has refused to leave rather my husband got her a job last month.
I can not bear this whole shit. Currently am pregnant and I told my husband that I would need the room for the baby's nursery. He kept mute again.
So I had to tell my sister in-law to see what she can do about moving out since she's now working.
Now wahala has started again!
Please,No insults please, I need urgent advice. Please help your sister.