I am perplexed by the behavior of certain individuals. When a woman declares that she is finished with her marriage, it is essential to honor her choice and allow her the space she needs.
Examine the screenshots to observe how May took her time to engage with all the comments on her Instagram page, while deliberately overlooking the one that praised her as "The real Mrs. Yul Edochie."
This mirrors the actions of Mama Rita, which I find quite offensive. Although I believe her intentions are sincere, it is disrespectful to May whenever she implies the possibility of reconciliation between May and Yul. It is frustrating to hear her refer to May as Yul's wife and discuss defeating Satan and May reclaiming her husband from Judy.
This is precisely why Judy's supporters, with their delusions, continue to assume that May is striving to reunite with Yul .
Consider how elegant, affluent, accomplished, and well-liked May is at this moment, and yet some believe her existence should center around Yul, as if a woman is incomplete without a man, regardless of his worthlessness.
This reflects the same mentality that leads people to see a divorced woman and immediately start praying for her to reunite with her husband or to feel sympathy for her. I genuinely fail to understand why a divorced woman should be pitied; she is a woman who has chosen herself, and yet you feel sorry for her . Why not redirect that sympathy towards the many women trapped in the confines of unhappy marriages?
Currently, I have received over eight direct messages from married women expressing their distress and seeking guidance on how to navigate their lives in 2026, as they do not wish to remain in marriages that have consistently brought them suffering.
Seventy percent of the marriages in Nigeria are far from ideal; the institution of marriage is gradually becoming a farce, particularly here in Nigeria. Yet, rather than support or empathize with a divorced woman, many prefer to mock her or feel pity for her, or even pray for her to reconcile with the individual who has caused her distress.
I believe many individuals need to liberate themselves from mental bondage and discard the mindset we were raised with that marriage is solely for better or worse.
I came to understand that individuals can indeed fall out of love, and unforeseen circumstances can arise in a marriage or relationship, making it acceptable to move forward. This realization dawned on me while I was watching 'Keeping Up with the Kardashians' in my early twenties, around the age of 22.
I observed the conclusion of Kim's relationship with Reggie Bush; she was deeply in love with him, practically showering him with affection, yet it ultimately ended. Following their breakup, Reggie even exhibited some animosity towards her. Despite the heartbreak, Kim was attempting to move on when he called her to express his anger, claiming that his card had been charged for something related to Kim's car maintenance.
I also witnessed the love story and subsequent breakup of Khloe and Lamar.
Additionally, I followed Kourtney's experiences with Scott and how their relationship concluded.
We all witnessed the dissolution of Kim and Kanye's marriage, along with Kanye's outbursts directed at Kim and her family post-divorce. It was only due to Kim's decision to rise above the situation and disregard the insults he hurled at her. Who would have imagined that Kanye, who spent over a decade trying to be with Kim, would eventually marry her, have beautiful children with her, and then completely disrupt everything? He even made a deeply personal remark about Kim, suggesting that she purges excessively and visits the bathroom far too often.
What about Khloe and Tristan?
And Kylie and Tyga as well.
It is perfectly acceptable for a marriage or relationship to come to an end; it is not the end of the world, nor is it the worst thing that could happen. People are suffering from cancer and various other ailments. Why place such undue emphasis on marriage and relationships? If they conclude, it is essential to move on. Allow individuals to progress and live their lives; refrain from policing their choices or praying for their reconciliation. Instead, focus on your own needs; you may require those prayers more.
As long as the man has not pursued my Vijay or the woman has not gone after the man's Deek, let them move on, please.
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