There is this guy that is asking me out he is 39 I am 27 the thing is I don't love him.. like that . but the guy is in USA.. and me, I just want to pursue my dreams.
I have tried dating, all this starting from the bottom guys, but I feel like they always dump me when things get rosy for them and me ,I am feeling like I don't want to build any man again, like, let the man just build himself, and come and meet me, and I don't want to shrink myself, and not like, I'm depending on a man to give me princess treatment oh... I just want a man that will catapult me, while me self I will be contribute to his growth and my intention is,I will just stick to that marriage no matter what.
I am not planning, like all this girls that once they go there they will change. God knows that am quite ok ,I'm not there yet, but that's not my plan.
So I have this boyfriend he is from my mom's side and I like him so much, but for now my heart is numb towards every guy. I only fell in love with one guy so far, but he cheated on me and since then,
the thing has been paining me more than normal, because he nor even get money, but yet he get liver to cheat. So for that, I left him and focus on the US guy, but I still love him sha.
So back to my question.. is it a valid reason to marry someone because you want them to help you achieve your dreams?
And I'm not planning to hurt him.. by God's grace ,because I know karma exists, but for now, my entire feeling as if it's numb or it's not there self, I don't know.
But I feel like I might fall In love with him along the line.
But damn ,I still love this guy that cheated on me so much, just that he is broke now, why I take the thing personal. We just had one small fight oh ..and he started talking with his ex and different girls.
The thing pain me ,and na me they give am money ,him no they give me any princess treatment.
Do you think my feels is valid? should i go with the one that will give me princess treatment or the broke guy that hurt my feeling?